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How To Solve Erection Problems
By
Calle Zorro
Somewhere along the way, a man will out of the blue
begin to have erection problems. He’ll still have and
feel desire for his lady but his penis will simply not
cooperate. He’ll feel embarrassed, humiliated, ashamed,
and guilty. And, his lady will feel just as bad because
she now thinks that the man has lost his desire and
attraction for her which really rattles her sense of
self-worth.
Because it’s going to happen if it hasn’t already
happened, let’s explore this phenomenon…
As odd as it may seem, few men seem to recognize the
"transition" that happens to them. For the first part of
an average male's life, an erection is an automatic,
requires no effort, instantaneous, kind of thing.
For the first part of the average male's life, they
think how dumb it is that a woman needs to hear the
words first, that she needs to be turned on in her head
first, before she is really ready for sex.
And then, the transition happens. All of a sudden,
things aren't so instant and automatic.
He thinks something is wrong with him which leads to
further anxiety which leads to further erection
problems. At the same time, the lady of the relationship
- with all of her own self-doubt - interprets the
"malfunction" as something wrong with her.
What we have to consider is that the power of the mind
is an amazing thing. National Geographic magazine has
reported more than once on "natives" who woke up on a
given morning in perfect health, decided that they had
been "cursed" during the night and were dead before
nightfall - all because of what they believed in their
mind.
Given this example of the mind's power, is it any wonder
that men have erection problems when they don't
understand what's really happening within their own
bodies?
Well, the good news is that most men don't have a real
problem. Nature has just "turned the tables on him".
In other words, when the transition happens, the average
male needs to hear sexual words first. He needs to get
turned on in his head first. He needs foreplay. He needs
his wife to talk sexy talk to him. He needs his wife to
assure him of her love and care for him. He needs his
wife to assure him of his value and importance.
He needs all the things that she needed during the first
part of HER life - and that he thought was so dumb. He
needs all those things that felt like nothing but an
obstacle to him getting what he wanted.
The bad news is that if he doesn't recognize and
understand this "transition", then he will start using
the power of his mind in a negative and destructive way
such that he will end up having genuine and real
erection problems.
But, by understanding what's really going on and by
asking the wife to slow things down a bit, to talk sexy
talk, to affirm him, to open up and expose all of her
secret sexual thoughts, a man and a woman can have sex
that is far more incredible than anything they've
experienced prior to the transition.
Copyright 2006, by
Calle Zorro
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