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The Secret Bond they Share
Twins share a special closeness - something that other siblings fail
to have. This strong tie between one another, can at times create a
barrier between 'outsiders' and themselves, and through this mutual
awareness, never feel the need to have the companionship of anybody
other than just the two of them. The emotional security they derive
from each other, can be very beneficial to both parents and twins in
their early years, especially when encountered by new situations,
and not having to face them alone.
As twins start to mature they will strive for individual attention,
and because they are often so alike, may find it difficult to differ
their attention seeking strategies. This competition can develop
into a love/hate relationship, where they feel somewhat trapped, yet
eager to become a single person, who receives individual
stimulation, discipline and love. In this case, many twins reject
one another through showing totally opposite traits - if for example
one twin is extremely extroverted, always chatting away and seeking
social acceptance, the other may seem somewhat shy and subdued. So
it is for this exact reason that you cater for the individual needs
of each child, by offering each quality time, spent alone with you.
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